How to turn a hookup into a relationship?
Maybe you meet in a bar or a club or maybe you meet on hookup apps, wherever you meet each other, it is always possible to have a relationship with the person you like, even if you start as one night hookup partner or friends with benefits. Here are tips to turn a BBW dating into a relationship.
Invite them to spend time with you
Before you decide if this person is suitable for a relationship, ask them to stay with you for a while outside the bedroom. Invite them to join you and your friends to eat dinner, or go shopping with you once in a while. Simply invite them to do some casual things with you to see if you can have fun together while you are fully dressed.
Show them your life
When you are with them, tell them about your happy time and anything about your life, even past relationships. They need to know what you are like when you are not with them. Also, talk about what you spend time doing and your passion. Let them know that you have your own life. This will make them want to be part of it.
Tell them what you want
If you don't tell them what you want, there is no way to know what they want, or if it works to be in a relationship with them. Tell them that you enjoy spending time with them and want to see if this time can be more than just a casual one night hookup. If they don't like it? Reduce the time you spend with them and make sure that only sexual activities are very much in your priority list. Your life is so full of magical things for you to do, or tell them that you are aware of what you want and you won’t stop until you find it. No matter what you do, don't spend all your time on them, but create an alternative relationship to fill your time. If they can only give one night hookup, then they are not worth your love.
Sometimes when they get less, they realize they want more. But if you keep giving them everything, but you don't get any return from them, your relationship will always be unstable, and you will end up wasting your time. People tend to reach the standards we set for them, or leave our lives. Set high standards and only the most compatible people will stay. Do not settle just because they give you a real smile or a serious look. When you are chasing them, they should be worth your chasing as well.
Know that you will get what you want
Whether it is this person or someone else, you will get what you want. You have to be clear about this, because it means you have to set your own standards, not let others control you. Even if you are not able to be in a relationship with this one, that does not make you less attractive and worthy of a person. It is just that they are not the one for you. The right one is still out there.